The B.L.A.C Men’s Relationship Roundtable

In the April edition of BLAC Detroit Magazine, seven African-American men share their opinions and personal experiences with relationships and love in Detroit in a roundtable discussion, moderated by J. Nadir Omowale. Click HERE to read a transcript.

The Men:

  • Army Mechanical Engineering Technician Allison Hester, 46, has never married but wants to
  • Detroit Public Schools Teacher Spencer Murray, 46, is divorced and remarried
  • Hair Stylist Antonio Mosby, 37, has never been married
  • Locomotive Engineer Darryl Yarbrough, 45, is divorced and in a committed relationship
  • Attorney and WDET’s New Soul Sunday Host Nick Austin, 29, has never been married
  • Musician, Producer and Writer J. Nadir Omowale, 42, has been married for 12 years
  • Retired Engineer Erick Hardy, 64, has been married for 41 years

Nadir: How would you describe the state of Black relationships in Detroit?

Al: A lot of people want to paint the picture that it’s doom and gloom on Black love in Detroit, but my experience has been just the opposite. I like to think that I’m wise in my choices and that I pick fairly smart women [to date]. They know what they are looking for in a mate and what it is they have to give of themselves to be in a relationship.

Nadir: We hear stories about there being a shortage of good Black men, all over, not just in Detroit. From a Black male standpoint, how do you guys see that?

Spencer: I still find it difficult to buy into. I certainly think there’s a shortage if you are looking for a particular type of Black male. If some female has a list of what she wants and things are not meeting up to her list, her perspective can be, there’s a shortage.

Antonio: “I need a man who is sensitive to my needs. I need a man that’s a good friend. I need a man that’s a good lover. I need a man that’s supportive. I need a provider.” You might not find all those qualifications in one particular man. Some of these lists are ridiculous. I do hair and I deal with women all day long, and I hear this all the time.

Spencer: I’ve been married for a short time now. This is my third marriage. And one thing I’ve come to understand is people become better in a relationship. I used to believe you get married and the next day that person has become everything you want them to be. But I see now that it’s a journey. You still have to put in the work.

Read more of the discussion at BLACDetroit.com

Nadir Nominated for Two Detroit Music Awards

Nadir Live in Monroe, Michigan - Photo by Lindsay KingVoting is underway for the 20th Annual Detroit Music Awards. Nadir earned two nominations in 2011 – for Outstanding Urban/Funk Songwriter and Outstanding Urban/Funk Group for Nadir and Distorted Soul. He will also receive recognition as a Special Honoree in the Urban/Funk Vocalist category after winning that DMA three years in a row, from 2008 to 2010.

The awards show will be held Friday, April 15 at The Fillmore Theatre Detroit, 2115 Woodward Avenue. Cast your vote Today at DetroitMusicAwards.net.

On Thursday, April 14, join Nadir and fellow nominee Eliza Neals for at celebratory toast a Detroit’s Hard Rock Cafe. Nadir kicks of the night with a solo funk set that you won’t want to miss.

Thursday, April 14, 2011 – 8pm
Pre-DMA Rock & Soul Showcase with Eliza Neals & Nadir
Hard Rock Cafe Detroit

45 Monroe Street, Detroit, Michigan
For more info visit HardRockCafe.com

IAYAALIS – I Am You Are And Love IS…!

IAYAALIS is a creatrix – a female creator and multi-talent whose critically-acclaimed rhymes, singing voice, spoken word, poetry, prose, and visual art, have earned respect from free-thinking, progressive audiences internationally.

Now with the 2011 release of her long-awaited musical debut, I Am You Are And Love IS…!, IAYAALIS rouses the senses, painting contagious melodies and enlightened lyrics on a canvas of scintillating rhythms and speaker-knocking bass. Eclectic, esoteric and engaging, I Am You Are And Love IS…! offers an aural collage of hip hop, soul and spoken word that elevates the spirit while it heats up the dance floor.

Nashville-based Donalda Antonia Chandler, whose acronymic name, I.A.Y.A.A.L.IS stands for I Am You Are And Love IS (pronounced “i-yall-EE”), emerged from the Middle Tennessee arts community as an award-winning emcee, singer, poet, visual and performance artist. According to The Nashville Scene, IAYAALIS’ lyrical style merges “sensual physicality with deep spiritual insights and a distinctly feminine point of view”. The music infuses a cross-section of hip-hop and soul sounds with occasional flashes of African percussion, dancehall and other worldly vibrations.

Her Nashville Music Award nomination for Best Unsigned Artist sparked frenzied courtships by major labels, but ultimately IAYAALIS refused to compromise her artistry and independence. Finally IAYAALIS partnered with longtime friend and collaborator Nadir Omowale and his Detroit-based indie label, EAPro Inc., to release an album that displays the full range of her artistry.

I Am You Are And Love IS…! showcases the talents of several producers including Salle Vation, J Mink, Nadir Omowale, and Beat Kang Reavis Mitchell, III – co-creator of the Beat Thang music production system. The collection also contains posthumous releases of productions by late Afrikan Dreamland founder Aashid Himons and late Nashville hip-hop pioneer Bruce Dungee.

“For me, I Am You Are And Love IS…! is my expression of who I am and some of the things I’m about,” IAYAALIS says. “This album represents years of hard work, life experiences and hopefully an opportunity to inspire and cause people to think.”

I Am You Are And Love IS…! is available for purchase at IAYAALIS.com, EAPro.net, iTunes, Amazon.com, and other select retailers.

Please visit www.iayaalis.com for more information and updates.

IAYAALIS on The Fembassy

If you’re not familiar with The Fembassy, you’re missing out! It’s a blog where you can check out all the best female emcees.

One of the best, of course, is IAYAALIS. Check her out!

Introducing IAYAALIS – Part 1: ‘the name’

Names are important because they symbolize who we are, and are an expression of our identity. In the case of Nashville-based emcee, singer, poet, and spiritualist IAYAALIS, understanding her name is critical to understanding who she is, what she is about, and why she does what she does.

IAYAALIS – the name
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It’s been said that nothing sounds as sweet to any person as the sound of her own name.

Names are important because they symbolize who we are. They offer an expression of our identity. The sound of a name sends a vibration that resonates within, calling us to attention. Traditionally, the meaning of the name implies the character and attributes of the individual, something to live up to.

In the case of Nashville-based emcee, singer, poet, and spiritualist IAYAALIS, understanding her name is critical to understanding who she is, what she is about, and why she does what she does.

“The name IAYAALIS is an acronym that stands for I Am You Are And Love IS,” she says. “Basically it’s a formula by which I live.”

Born Donalda Antonia Chandler, IAYAALIS has earned recognition (i.e. “made a name for herself”) as one of the most talented and versatile artists on the Nashville music scene. She’ll release her debut album I Am You Are And Love IS…! in March 2011.

“I’ve done a lot of research into metaphysics and different belief systems… all types of cultures and religions,” she told the Nashville Scene. “The one thing that they all hold as true, the one thing I saw in all of them is, ‘I am, you are, and love is,’ with love being the all-being, whether you call that God or Goddess or father or spirit or Allah or whatever.”

The first single from I Am You Are And Love IS…! fittingly is “the name”. “The song ‘the name’ is an expression of all the various things that comprise my world. It’s about the things that I’m attentive to, and that I resonate with, and that are real to me in my world.”

Learn more about IAYALLIS at iayaalis.com


Kenya Moore – Creating An Empire

Actress, producer Kenya Moore is more than just a pretty face

By J. Nadir Omowale
Originally Published in Ambassador Magazine

“I think any attractive woman in any field is always going to be underestimated.

”Kenya Moore speaks from experience. The voluptuous hazel-eyed Detroit native is a former Miss Michigan and in 1993 was crowned Miss USA. She appears in movies (Waiting To Exhale, I Know Who Killed Me) and on television shows (Girlfriends, The Jamie Foxx Show). Her bikinied body and stunning features regularly adorn the covers of men’s magazines and fashion publications.

But Kenya Moore is much more than a beautiful package. She is a business executive, an author, an entrepreneur, and a philanthropist. Beneath that curvaceous, chocolate exterior lies a bright, intelligent, funny, and driven woman who knows what she wants and isn’t afraid to use what she’s got to get it.

“People tend to discount a woman’s intelligence if she’s beautiful, and I’m no different,”says Moore.“I feel great that people find me attractive, but the challenge is always proving the stereotype to be false.”

Raised by her grandmother, Moore attended Detroit’s Cass Technical High School. Kenya loved to perform, and studied dance. She was a member of the school’s dance team and fondly recalls performing at ballgames.

Moore’s pageant career began when she and some friends entered the Miss Black Star talent pageant for girls age 13 to 16, where Moore took first runner up. “Just for the record,” she advises, “singers always trump dancers.You can never beat a good singer! It’s just a rule of the world.”

Moore kept entering pageants, and started winning. The more prestigious the pageant, the better the rewards, including cash prizes, scholarships, and even a car.

Pageants also forced Moore to improve her communication skills, overcome any fears she had of public speaking, and polish her overall presentation, which, she says, helped her become the woman she is today.

Modeling and acting were a natural progression for Moore after her reign as Miss USA, but she entered a Hollywood that is highly political and notorious for its lack of decent roles for women of color. “What I learned is that the acting world is a business, and most of the time the best person doesn’t get the job,”says Moore.“It always has something to do with name value, or the relationship the person has with the casting director, or the producer, or the director, or the studio … It rarely is about the best person who shows up at the audition.”

So Moore decided to do something different.“I didn’t like my career path, and I felt a lack of control,”she reveals. She began to set her own course in 2000 as associate producer of the independent film Trois, which became one of the highest grossing African-American movies of the year. She has produced several other projects over the last decade and hasn’t looked back.

Moore is very enthusiastic about her latest production, The Confidant, which finds the actress/producer starring alongside Boris Kudjoe (Love & Basketball, Soul Food), rapper David Banner, Asian sex symbol Bai Ling (The Crow), and Billy Zane (Titanic).

The suspense/thriller was written and directed by Alton Glass, who Moore met at the American Black Film Festival where both were nominated for best film. Neither of them won, but after seeing Glass’ horror film, Marco Polo, Moore was determined to work with him.

“What I loved the most about the Confidant script was there was no reference to color. We could have had any ethnicity play any role, and it would’ve worked. I knew that the script was so powerful, I could get the cast that I wanted.”

Not content with just acting, modeling, and producing, Moore is also passionate about The Kenya Moore Foundation, which provides scholarships to underprivileged girls at Moore’s alma mater, Cass Tech.“I look for girls who have had a difficult time in school,”she explains.“One that may have gone from a solid B average to maybe a C minus, struggling with emotional issues or just having a hard time in life in general. It’s basically telling them, ‘Look. You can get your life together, but you’ve got to get an education.’For me it’s just inspirational.‘Here is something that can help you get to where you want to be in life.’”

Moore credits much of her tenacity, her toughness, and her “hustler mentality” to her upbringing in Detroit.“I’m gonna get it done no matter what,”she asserts.“I’m not gonna hurt anybody to do it, but I’m gonna get it done, and no one can tell me no.

“I attribute those aspects of my personality directly to Detroit, because without that basic knowledge and education from street to school, I wouldn’t be who I am.”

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M’s Gathering Place Offers a Fresh Take on Dining and Live Music in SE Michigan

Kennedy at M's Gathering Place - Photo by AJ ViolaDelicious, homemade food, and farm fresh ingredients share the spotlight with the best live musicians in Detroit at M’s Gathering Place.

Located at 32293 Ford Road (between Venoy and Merriman) in Garden City, Michigan, M’s Gathering Place delivers a unique menu highlighting tasty, family recipes, made with the freshest fixings at surprisingly affordable prices. “I felt the community needed a place where we could come and listen to great music, and enjoy a good meal in a nice, clean, family atmosphere,” says owner Mary Hauk, a lifelong Michigander.

The Hauk family has been farming in Southeastern Michigan for four generations starting back when Garden City was Nankin Township. M’s is located less than a half-mile from where the old family homestead once stood.

Mary has owned and operated Mary’s Farm Market and Farm in nearby Canton, Michigan since 1993. The selections at M’s Gathering Place feature fresh seasonal produce straight from Mary’s farm, or purchased from her network of local Michigan farmers whenever possible. “Whatever we don’t grow on our family farms, we’re able to bring in from other Michigan farms when it’s in season,” Hauk says. “That makes a world of difference when it comes to flavor.”

The “always fresh” aesthetic applies to the restaurant’s meats and seafood as well. The best cuts of beef and pork are prepared daily in house to ensure top quality. Whitefish, salmon and farm-raised catfish are flown in, and filleted right in the spacious kitchen. Homemade breads, sauces, salad dressings and pizza dough are also prepared at the restaurant. Many of the items on the menu like the mouth-watering beef stroganoff, and the juicy London Broil are adapted from family recipes.

On weekends, the main course at M’s is the stellar live music. Detroit is home to some of the most talented musicians in the world, and M’s Gathering Place features the best soul, R&B, jazz and blues players the Motor City has to offer. The entertainment lineup includes many recipients and nominees of the prestigious Detroit Music Awards. Local and international favorites like Detroit blues princess Thornetta Davis, Big Will (formerly of The Sun Messengers) and his hot new band 360 Degrees, soul legend Dave Hamilton, acoustic guitar virtuosos Wayne Gerard and Sean Blackman, world music phenoms Zap Toro, Detroit funkateer Nadir and soul songstress L’Renee are just a few of the amazing artists who grace the stage at M’s.

“I don’t think there is another place on Detroit’s Westside that offers the quality music that we feature here at M’s,” Hauk sings. Live music is featured on Friday, Saturday and Sunday.

Other amenities at M’s include online ordering, 14 large screen televisions for Detroit’s sports lovers, a fine variety of craft and commercial beers, wines and spirits, and free wi-fi. Dine-in and carry out are available.

M’s Gathering Place opened for business Thursday, July 22, 2010. A grand opening celebration will be held Saturday, July 31 and Sunday, August 1 with live music all day both days.

Nadir Earns 2010 DMA for Outstanding Urban Funk Vocals

A very special thanks to the members of Detroit’s music community for voting Nadir Outstanding Urban Funk Vocalist at the 2010 Detroit Music Awards on April 16. The singer songwriter has earned the Outstanding Funk Vocal prize four of the last five years, and the last three in a row. This is his tenth DMA award.

Nadir thanks the fantastic musicians who have made him sound so good over the past few years: Joe Abrams, James “Jamalot Indeed” Anderson, Yaminah Brock, Alesha Brown, Phred Brown, Derek Buford, Chef, LaMont Davis, Duane Dawkins, Dan Eichinger, Jason Gaddies, GT, The Reverend Dr. Brandon Holland, Kamau Inaede, Tammy Jones, Kris Kurzawa, Niko Marks, Topher Mohr, Earl Orr, Jr., Chris Sego, Freeman Spells, Jr., Ping Spells, Joey Spina, Chris Spooner, Mia Treadwell, and Rudy Washington.

Special thanks to publicist Nancy J. Phares and Spark Art Marketing, manager Cornelius Harris and Alter Ego Management, Michele Bateman of Decent Exposure, Hubert Moser of Miracle Dread Productions, Corbin Dooley of Bikiniwax Records, DJ Butterface, Reavis Mitchell, Neal Cappellino, Daniel Lee, Michael Bohannon, and all the other talented producers who have contributed to Nadir’s albums, Emily Rogers for being (as Yorg says) “the Tawny Kitaen” of Nadir videos, Ryan Myers, Jason Schultz, Landmine Design, Zeina by Design, Lisa Luevanos, Ron Harper, Bob Davis & Soul-Patrol.com, Chris Rizik & SoulTracks.com, Pierre Dumas, the 1440 Collective, Change::The Music, the EAPro Family, Mom, Kevin, all other family and friends, and most importantly, the Queen of Sheba, Akanke Rashad-Omowale. All praise be to the One Most High.

Video: Nadir – Workin’ For The Man (LIVE)

Check out this live performance video of “Workin’ For The Man” by Nadir from the 2010 St. Michael’s We Care Telethon in Monroe, Michigan. The video was produced by WUPW – Fox Toledo.

St. Michael’s We Care offers monetary and other assistance to individuals residing in Monroe County, Michigan with a life-threatening illness to be paid after the use of insurance (if any), other organizations, and/or money derived from other sources is exhausted.

This performance happened at the height of the US health care reform debate. We felt it was important to do this benefit in support of a great organization that offers aid to families and individuals in their time of greatest need.

The band is Alesha Brown (keyboards & vocals), Mia Treadwell (drums & vocals), Chris Spooner (bass & vocals), Nadir Omowale (vocals, guitar). “Workin’ For The Man” was written by Daniel Lee (aka The Invisible Kid) and Nadir Omowale. It’s the title track of the Workin’ For The Man album.

Covering the Sound of BLAC Detroit

BLAC Detroit, John Legend, Nadir Omowale

EAPro’s Nadir Omowale is a featured music columnist for BLAC Detroit magazine (formerly African American Family). Since January 2009 he has written about some of the Motor City’s most notable veterans and its most promising up and comers. He’s also penned features about the unsung heroes of Motown and Grammy winner John Legend.

Click below for a sampling of Nadir’s writings (in PDF format).

FEBRUARY 2010 Cover Story:
John Legend – “Star Light”

JANUARY 2010 SOUND:
David Blair – “Blairing Urban Folk”

SEPTEMBER 2009 SOUND:
Lola Morales – “The Melange of Lola Morales”

OCTOBER 2009 SOUND:
Pathe Jassi – “Son of Senegal”